I was delighted when my daughter named me "Most Improved Soccer Parent of 2011" -- mainly for not talking about the game at all after a game. Inspired, I have created some resolutions so I, too, can go to the "next level."
New Year's Resolutions for Force Soccer Dad:
1) I will commit the difference between the "ITC" park in Novi and Independence Park in Canton to memory. Or is it "ITC" in Canton and Independence Park in Novi? For that matter, I will learn the difference between Canton and Novi.
2) Having gotten over the frustration of using a whole can of "Goo Off" to get my Force sticker off the back of my old Ford Flex I will get a new Force sticker to go on my new Ford Flex. This is critical: other parents look for stickers ("oh, follow them!" or "we are at the right field!") so I can lead other parents astray coming out of an unfamiliar parking lot.
3) When discussing the connection between 12 year old travel soccer in southeast Michigan and the Olympics I will do so without (visible) irony.
4) When driving the Flex forty miles there and back to my daughter's soccer games I will use only "Klean Canteens" for water and not plastic water bottles -- therein limiting my carbon footprint.
5) I will stop referring to the Hawks as Wolves even though Hawks are clearly gendered male in every bit of iconography going back to the ancient Egyptians.
6) I will stop clutching my head in pain whenever Lauren heads the ball.
7) Should the Force Golf Invitational take place again in 2012 I will bring 3 ringers, and 1 disaster -- not the other way round.
8) I will not think at all on "match" or "tournament" days....I will just follow Alice's instructions to the letter.
9) I will make more productive use of my time (grading exams, doing taxes, etc.) while waiting for Coach Cookie to finish his postgame talk.
10) I will limit my comments to the officials .... to when we are playing the Novi Jags.
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Thursday, December 22, 2011
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/22/sports/soccer/in-england-star-players-accused-of-racist-comments.html?_r=1&nl=todaysheadlines&emc=tha27
Click on the NY TIMES link for more on racism in European soccer. I posted a few weeks ago about this. I post with a certain schadenfreude, of course. Euro relatives and colleagues never tire, it seems, of recounting America's racist past and hold up the "cosmopolitan" nature of major European cities as some sort of counter-example to provincial (and racist) America. Certainly one never wants to deny continuing problems of racism in America today -- but Europe as a model? London? Paris? Berlin? Amsterdam? Really? Certainly the kind of racist sports incidents cited here are unthinkable in the NBA or NFL or Major League Baseball. Can you imagine? History matters. Europe is a place where people immigrate away from, not to...and it is only recently that that pattern is changing. Old habits die hard.
Click on the NY TIMES link for more on racism in European soccer. I posted a few weeks ago about this. I post with a certain schadenfreude, of course. Euro relatives and colleagues never tire, it seems, of recounting America's racist past and hold up the "cosmopolitan" nature of major European cities as some sort of counter-example to provincial (and racist) America. Certainly one never wants to deny continuing problems of racism in America today -- but Europe as a model? London? Paris? Berlin? Amsterdam? Really? Certainly the kind of racist sports incidents cited here are unthinkable in the NBA or NFL or Major League Baseball. Can you imagine? History matters. Europe is a place where people immigrate away from, not to...and it is only recently that that pattern is changing. Old habits die hard.
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Year end blog review
"It is all about the kids."
The post that received the highest number of hits for 2011 was *Hope Solo and Dancing With the Stars*
Briana Amat, the Pinckney placekicker named Homecoming Queen, came in number 2.
The post that received the highest number of hits for 2011 was *Hope Solo and Dancing With the Stars*
Briana Amat, the Pinckney placekicker named Homecoming Queen, came in number 2.
Sunday, December 18, 2011
1-1 tie! December 17 carving the roast beast!
It was like the Grinch himself tied on a pair of cleats and popped on to the pitch when, late in the game, the ball popped over the heads of Force center defenders.
And there, like a grudging but still loyal Max the dog, was a RSC forward to grab it and streak in on Kate alone to tie things up 1-1 with 2 minutes left. Indeed, the Force's own "Cindy lou Who" (albeit a Cindy lou Who with the bone density of Thor the Thunder God), Jill, had just left the field after an impressive 10 minutes turning back RSC attacks. Timing is everything.
But, in the grand scheme of things, Christmas still came on time. A 1-1 tie for the U12 in 2011 is a reason to celebrate (and celebrate we did, hence this late posting -- the author was in a dispute about a bar tab). The girls played very well and controlled the game despite playing without Annabelle, Grace, and Lauren.
Ellie, in good sisterly mode, stepped in at defense and provided several long balls to shift field position. Zoe was a distinct presence in midfield. Anastasia, Sawyer, and Christina put together nice combinations all night. And Sophia played one of the best defensive halves of the season, chasing down forwards, winning balls at midfield against bigger opponents, and sending beautiful balls up the sidelines for Force Forwards.
At one point the giving spirit of Christmas threatened to overwhelm the Force when -- seeking to continue their Barcelona style -- the girls passed on shots in front of the RSC keeper to give teammates a chance. Kyra, however, restrained her charitable impulses just enough to drive home what looked to be the game winner with five minutes left....but, then, the Grinch!
Ah well. All's Well that Ends Well said the Bard (depending on how you read Bertram's acceptance of marriage with Helena -- but we can argue that point at the next Tech Training).
The bar tab dispute? Dear reader: I married her.
Happy holidays and looking forward to seeing you all on the road to the Olympics in 2012!!!
And there, like a grudging but still loyal Max the dog, was a RSC forward to grab it and streak in on Kate alone to tie things up 1-1 with 2 minutes left. Indeed, the Force's own "Cindy lou Who" (albeit a Cindy lou Who with the bone density of Thor the Thunder God), Jill, had just left the field after an impressive 10 minutes turning back RSC attacks. Timing is everything.
But, in the grand scheme of things, Christmas still came on time. A 1-1 tie for the U12 in 2011 is a reason to celebrate (and celebrate we did, hence this late posting -- the author was in a dispute about a bar tab). The girls played very well and controlled the game despite playing without Annabelle, Grace, and Lauren.
Ellie, in good sisterly mode, stepped in at defense and provided several long balls to shift field position. Zoe was a distinct presence in midfield. Anastasia, Sawyer, and Christina put together nice combinations all night. And Sophia played one of the best defensive halves of the season, chasing down forwards, winning balls at midfield against bigger opponents, and sending beautiful balls up the sidelines for Force Forwards.
At one point the giving spirit of Christmas threatened to overwhelm the Force when -- seeking to continue their Barcelona style -- the girls passed on shots in front of the RSC keeper to give teammates a chance. Kyra, however, restrained her charitable impulses just enough to drive home what looked to be the game winner with five minutes left....but, then, the Grinch!
Ah well. All's Well that Ends Well said the Bard (depending on how you read Bertram's acceptance of marriage with Helena -- but we can argue that point at the next Tech Training).
The bar tab dispute? Dear reader: I married her.
Happy holidays and looking forward to seeing you all on the road to the Olympics in 2012!!!
Friday, December 16, 2011
Saturday
Game time 6:00 please arrive by 5:30 wear BLACK, Field 1, RSC 99 Blue
Holiday Party immediately after the game. Blue jeans/team uniforms are perfect and siblings are welcome. Please park in lot and walk up stairs to the Grill.
The girls will do their Secret Soccer Star gift exchange that night.Last chance for a win (or tie) in 2011!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May the road to the Olympics and the Professional leagues be smoother in 2012!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, December 12, 2011
Weekly Update from Alice, week of December 12
Hello All,
Tuesday
Aaron Byrd 4:30-5:30
Thursday
Practice 6-7:30
Friday
Technical Training 6-7:30 Mini Dome
Saturday
Game time 6:00 please arrive by 5:30 wear BLACK, Field 1, RSC 99 Blue
Holiday Party immediately after the game. Blue jeans/team uniforms are perfect and siblings are welcome. Please park in lot and walk up stairs to the Grill.
The girls will do their Secret Soccer Star gift exchange that night. If you are unable to attend, please send your gift to practice on Thursday and I will be sure to pass it out Saturday.
If everyone could please RSVP to me for Saturday night I would appreciate it (I know some plans have changed for people so that is why I am asking for another RSVP).
Sunday, December 11, 2011
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Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Weekly update from Alice!
Hello All,
Tuesday
Aaron Byrd tonight 4:30-5:30. It will be a smaller crowd because a few of the girls have a swim meet tonight.
Thursday
6-7:30 Practice, please see the note below from Steve.
Friday
6-7:30 Technical training in the Mini Dome
Saturday Game
Game time 3:00 please arrive by 2:30 Field 1, wear BLACK, WAZA Royal 00
Let’s have the girls wear their matching head bands again, to “Band Together” for a win.
Coach Cookie reminds all players to wear sneakers into the Silverdome and put on cleats inside. No running on cement and up and down the stairs.
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Michigan Impact 2-1 loss on December 2
The Force U12 girls got back into game action tonite (10PM!!) after what seemed to be a long break (it was, in fact, only two weeks but such is the bizarre, continual cadence of travel soccer that a two week interruption seems "long").
The girls played well -- even without strong defender Emmi and playmaker Rhea -- but the results were all too familiar. The girls fell into last place with a 2-1 loss to the Michigan Impact.
This was a particularly tough loss as the girls put together nice combinations all night. Lauren, Grace and Annabelle made superb passes and Kyra outhustled Impact defenders. Surprisingly, though, with all this good ball movement, the first goal was something of a fluke: Christina scored from a wacky angle to put the Force ahead about ten minutes in. The Impact got one back on yet another misguided backpass.
The Force controlled play. Jill was simply brilliant, moving the ball from her left defender spot into an attacking position. Zoe played a terrific game on defense while taking a number of tough hits from an outsized forward. Sophie played well, too.
Soccer officiating remains something of a mystery to me. I simply don't understand how a single player can foul on every contact with the ball and continue with the game. But...
So it was tough when the Impact got the go ahead goal on a single defensive breakdown when the Force got caught outnumbered.
We do have July to look forward to.
The girls played well -- even without strong defender Emmi and playmaker Rhea -- but the results were all too familiar. The girls fell into last place with a 2-1 loss to the Michigan Impact.
This was a particularly tough loss as the girls put together nice combinations all night. Lauren, Grace and Annabelle made superb passes and Kyra outhustled Impact defenders. Surprisingly, though, with all this good ball movement, the first goal was something of a fluke: Christina scored from a wacky angle to put the Force ahead about ten minutes in. The Impact got one back on yet another misguided backpass.
The Force controlled play. Jill was simply brilliant, moving the ball from her left defender spot into an attacking position. Zoe played a terrific game on defense while taking a number of tough hits from an outsized forward. Sophie played well, too.
Soccer officiating remains something of a mystery to me. I simply don't understand how a single player can foul on every contact with the ball and continue with the game. But...
So it was tough when the Impact got the go ahead goal on a single defensive breakdown when the Force got caught outnumbered.
We do have July to look forward to.
Friday, December 2, 2011
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Tuesday, November 29, 2011
paging Dr. Gupta
http://www.cnn.com/video/?hpt=hp_t2#/video/bestoftv/2011/11/29/exp-am-gupta-soccer-concussions.cnn
Dr. Gupta (click on video link above) says no more than 1300 head bumps with a soccer ball a year for kids. More can lead to American football type concussions. On the other hand, Malcolm Gladwell still insists to be really, really good at something -- say soccer -- one needs at least 10,000 hours of practice.
Dr. Gupta (click on video link above) says no more than 1300 head bumps with a soccer ball a year for kids. More can lead to American football type concussions. On the other hand, Malcolm Gladwell still insists to be really, really good at something -- say soccer -- one needs at least 10,000 hours of practice.
Weekly update from Alice, November 29
Hello All,
Tonight Aaron Byrd 4:30-5:30.
Thursday practice 6-7:30, please see note below regarding drop off and viewing location.
Saturday
Game time 10pm please arrive by 9:30, wear BLACK, Field 3. Michigan Impact 00.
NEW PARKING FOR SILVERDOME DRIVERS -- OPDYKE to Featherstone and Turn Left. Go in Gate 5 on the corner and enter at Main Grill. Force coaches also recommend parents stay warm.
Sunday, November 27, 2011
depressing story about soccer hooligans in Argentina
From todays NYTIMES
BUENOS AIRES — Three fans of the soccer club San Lorenzo de Almagro slipped past security guards after a closed-door practice last month and berated players on the field for their recent losses.
Jonathan Bottinelli, a star defender, told the men to leave. One of them lunged at Bottinelli and punched him in the face. Another hit him from behind. A few teammates rushed in to stop the fight, Bottinelli and other players said, but the beating continued, leaving Bottinelli, a club fan since childhood, with doubts about ever again pulling on the red-and-blue San Lorenzo jersey.
More than a decade after England finally tamed the roving bands of hooligans that long ravaged soccer stadiums in Britain, fan-related violence continues to stain the sport in Argentina.
The unrest in part reflects an increasingly violent Argentine society, where street crime has been on the rise. But much of the violence can be traced to hostilities between rival factions of barra bravas, the Argentine version of hooligan fan groups that use fists, firearms and knives, and operate like mini-mafias. They engage in legal and illegal businesses, including selling drugs, often with the cover and complicity of the police, politicians and club officials, according to prosecutors and others who have studied them.
Barra bravas are blamed for many of the 257 soccer-related deaths in Argentina since 1924, almost half of which have occurred in the past 20 years, according to Let’s Save Football, a nongovernmental organization in Buenos Aires that is working to eradicate violence in the sport.
“We don’t feel safe inside of our stadiums in Argentina,” said Monica Nizzardo, president of Let’s Save Football. “That is why families have stopped going.”
The head of the San Lorenzo barra brava, Cristian Evangelista, led the attack on Bottinelli, players testified in court, though they refused to name the other barras involved. Club officials did not respond to requests for comment. After the episode, the Argentine government canceled San Lorenzo’s next match while officials investigated.
Soccer violence became so rampant in the past decade that officials barred visiting fans from attending all but first-division matches for four years. The prohibition was lifted in August.
Visiting fans are not always the problem. After the storied club River Plate lost a match in June, relegating the team to the second division for the first time in its history, its fans pulled apart their own stadium, throwing bleachers and metal poles onto the field as the police fired tear gas into the stands. Fans fought with one another and attacked reporters and the police, who used rubber bullets and water cannons to try to quell the chaos. An estimated 70 people were injured, including 35 police officers, and about 100 people were detained.
The tension was palpable at a second-division match in September between River Plate and Quilmes. Some 600 police officers set up roadblocks around the stadium to separate Quilmes and visiting River fans. After the match, Quilmes fans had to wait a half-hour for River fans to exit before being allowed to leave the stadium.
Asserting control over unruly fans is more complicated than in England, said experts who have studied soccer violence.
In England, many hooligans were working-class men looking for a weekend fight. In Argentina, the barra bravas have ties to politicians, the police and club management, and some of their leaders have gained the admiration of young fans. Politicians tap them as a “shock force” to muscle unions backing rival politicians. Prosecutors have accused barras of killing union workers.
“On Sundays they go to the stadium and wave the flag of the club to support the team,” said Gustavo Gerlero, a public prosecutor. “During the week they are giving support to politicians and union leaders as laborers and bodyguards by the very people that theoretically should be stopping them.”
The Argentine Football Association, the sport’s national governing body, said it was concerned about the barra bravas’ role in the violence. Nizzardo and others have criticized the powerful president of the association, Julio Grondona, for not showing the will to break the barras. Grondona, 80, has led the association since 1979, when Argentina was in the midst of a bloody dictatorship. He is also a senior vice president of FIFA, soccer’s world governing body.
Grondona, who officials said has been ill lately, declined to be interviewed. In an interview last year that appeared in an Argentine book, “Football and Violence,” Grondona said his association wanted to eradicate the barra bravas to “ensure normality in the stadiums.” And he said the clubs needed to institute “biometric” control of fans entering the stadium to “deepen the right of admission.”
A barra brava typically has a few hundred members. They chant songs and wave flags and organize the huge banners supporting their club. Away from the field they earn money from scalping tickets, parking cars, selling illicit drugs and, some prosecutors have said, taking a cut of the sale of players.
BUENOS AIRES — Three fans of the soccer club San Lorenzo de Almagro slipped past security guards after a closed-door practice last month and berated players on the field for their recent losses.
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A Quilmes fan, left, and a visiting River Plate supporter were searched thoroughly before being allowed to enter El Centenario stadium. More Photos »
More than a decade after England finally tamed the roving bands of hooligans that long ravaged soccer stadiums in Britain, fan-related violence continues to stain the sport in Argentina.
The unrest in part reflects an increasingly violent Argentine society, where street crime has been on the rise. But much of the violence can be traced to hostilities between rival factions of barra bravas, the Argentine version of hooligan fan groups that use fists, firearms and knives, and operate like mini-mafias. They engage in legal and illegal businesses, including selling drugs, often with the cover and complicity of the police, politicians and club officials, according to prosecutors and others who have studied them.
Barra bravas are blamed for many of the 257 soccer-related deaths in Argentina since 1924, almost half of which have occurred in the past 20 years, according to Let’s Save Football, a nongovernmental organization in Buenos Aires that is working to eradicate violence in the sport.
“We don’t feel safe inside of our stadiums in Argentina,” said Monica Nizzardo, president of Let’s Save Football. “That is why families have stopped going.”
The head of the San Lorenzo barra brava, Cristian Evangelista, led the attack on Bottinelli, players testified in court, though they refused to name the other barras involved. Club officials did not respond to requests for comment. After the episode, the Argentine government canceled San Lorenzo’s next match while officials investigated.
Soccer violence became so rampant in the past decade that officials barred visiting fans from attending all but first-division matches for four years. The prohibition was lifted in August.
Visiting fans are not always the problem. After the storied club River Plate lost a match in June, relegating the team to the second division for the first time in its history, its fans pulled apart their own stadium, throwing bleachers and metal poles onto the field as the police fired tear gas into the stands. Fans fought with one another and attacked reporters and the police, who used rubber bullets and water cannons to try to quell the chaos. An estimated 70 people were injured, including 35 police officers, and about 100 people were detained.
The tension was palpable at a second-division match in September between River Plate and Quilmes. Some 600 police officers set up roadblocks around the stadium to separate Quilmes and visiting River fans. After the match, Quilmes fans had to wait a half-hour for River fans to exit before being allowed to leave the stadium.
Asserting control over unruly fans is more complicated than in England, said experts who have studied soccer violence.
In England, many hooligans were working-class men looking for a weekend fight. In Argentina, the barra bravas have ties to politicians, the police and club management, and some of their leaders have gained the admiration of young fans. Politicians tap them as a “shock force” to muscle unions backing rival politicians. Prosecutors have accused barras of killing union workers.
“On Sundays they go to the stadium and wave the flag of the club to support the team,” said Gustavo Gerlero, a public prosecutor. “During the week they are giving support to politicians and union leaders as laborers and bodyguards by the very people that theoretically should be stopping them.”
The Argentine Football Association, the sport’s national governing body, said it was concerned about the barra bravas’ role in the violence. Nizzardo and others have criticized the powerful president of the association, Julio Grondona, for not showing the will to break the barras. Grondona, 80, has led the association since 1979, when Argentina was in the midst of a bloody dictatorship. He is also a senior vice president of FIFA, soccer’s world governing body.
Grondona, who officials said has been ill lately, declined to be interviewed. In an interview last year that appeared in an Argentine book, “Football and Violence,” Grondona said his association wanted to eradicate the barra bravas to “ensure normality in the stadiums.” And he said the clubs needed to institute “biometric” control of fans entering the stadium to “deepen the right of admission.”
A barra brava typically has a few hundred members. They chant songs and wave flags and organize the huge banners supporting their club. Away from the field they earn money from scalping tickets, parking cars, selling illicit drugs and, some prosecutors have said, taking a cut of the sale of players.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
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