http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YeuI5qTKOaw
For all sorts of reasons it has been really, really hard
not to blog about US Women's Soccer goalkeeper Hope Solo's performance on ABC's *Dancing With the Stars*.
But after last night's exchange (see link above) between Hope's partner, Max, and judge, Len Goodman, I just couldn't resist.
For a show that is often considered superficial and silly at worst and just good fun at best the exchange between competitor/coach Max and judge/referee Len actually registers and makes visible a number of various serious and complicated concerns relative to youth sports, officiating, and the life lessons that can be taken from youth sport.
Here is what I am interested in: the standard lesson we teach our kids is that the referee is to be respected; they are human, and make mistakes but respect them; and, moreover, if you challenge a referee you only hurt yourself. This is a not a bad lesson at all.
Is this enough though? Is this what we want them to know about the modern, global world and the problems of "officiating" or "refereeing" or "judging". Kids that play sports often learn idealized lessons about winning and losing, fairness, and so on, idealized lessons that don't always correspond to the real world. Can sports do a
disservice to kids by not trying to articulate what all adults know?
Even our most idealized sports films,
Remember the Titans and
Hoosiers, have at their center some rather disturbing renderings of officiating. It is easily forgotten, for example, that at the end of the Titans a coach has to confront a a corrupt and racist official at some sacrifice to himself. In
Hoosiers, a film often discussed as the "way sports ought to be," there is nasty fight when when a coach confronts a "hometown" referee.
This is not just to say that officiating is bad or should be under constant suspicion -- but that it is more complicated for kids and parents to understand than we sometimes acknowledge.
Briefly, then, to
DWTS!!! The judges have been routinely tough on Hope. She is athletic certainly, but not particularly graceful as a dancer. This is no surprise. She has no training, no performance background. But in this "competition" she has the advantage of other former athletes on
DWTS (Emmitt Smith, Jerry Rice, Kristi Yamaguchi -- I find it troubling that the judges often refer to Hope's lack of artistry as a lack of "sexiness" -- something they didn't do with Emmitt Smith or Yamaguchi -- but I will get to that): Hope knows how to use her body much better than other humans. She is extraordinarily well conditioned, knows how to train, and knows how to take care of daily, nagging physical pain and fatigue. She also knows how to be coached.
Correspondingly, the judges have had seemingly higher expectations for her in terms of technique. Because she already has (more than) the physical ability to dance she must meet a professional dancer's standard. She has stayed on the show mainly because the competition also involves audience support. Viewers get to send in their opinions and this counts, too. In the clip, you can see the initial exchange between Max and Len begins when Max starts -- like an American football player -- trying to whip up crowd support to counter Len's harsh judgement of hope ("your worst performance of the season"). Len's specific critique was that her boots forced her to step down first with her heels -- a no, no for real dancers. Perhaps the boots were an issue for Len? The female pros always seem to do remarkable things in high heels (although I have watched elementary school moms cross an iced school parking lot in what seem to be 14 inch heels -- rather reckless in my opinion but...). I will get to that issue, too.
Conversely, some competitors, say Chaz Bono, who have little physical co-ordination and are below average in terms of physical conditioning and ability seem to get judged -- not on technique -- but on their mere willingness to try.
Chaz Bono's situation in particular raises all sorts of issues in terms of fairness of competition. Bono began life as a female, but he has undergone a number of medical procedures to "change" his sex from female to male. Here is a link to Chaz when he was Chastity on his famous mother and father's (Sonny and Cher) show. I remember watching this as a kid.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RyJvFPN5LGo&feature=related DWTS is (admirably, to my mind) including Chaz Bono in part to make a political point about
everyone's ability to compete, straight, gay, trans-gendered, whatever. Good for them.
But encapsulated in that same gesture towards inclusivity (the generally benign and well intentioned willingness or effort to include everyone), is a paradox, a paradox all adults know from tensions surrounding affirmative action. For kids, who might not know, affirmative action is the widespread legislation that encourages institutions to promote under-represented groups (before Oakland County voters say "Yeah! affirmative action is a problem they should note how closely those laws are connected to Title IX laws that to guarantee fairness for women in sports or women's rights legislation in general).
Here is the unavoidable paradox: If we make an artificial effort to include everyone based not on merit or ability we may like the political results but we might comprise the fairness of competition. The potential damage isn't just to our sense of fairness. Ironically, our efforts to be inclusive -- judge Chaz by a lower standard than Hope -- actually magnify or amplify the differences between individuals we initially sought to minimize.
Is it still a good thing to include Chaz if everyone ends up saying, "Chaz is only there because she is trans-gendered?" -- That is, if everyone ends up saying "see how different he is" when the initial idea was to say everyone can compete -- equally.
As Max the dancer puts it, toward the end of the clip, "Look, I am just tired of some being judged on heel touches [good dancers aren't supposed to let their heels hit the floor first] and some judged on effort." That is, Hope is being judged by a difficult and sophisticated standard and Chaz is being judged for showing up.
I think Max is accurate in his assessment. But what to do?
In his frustration, Max said something he shouldn't have. That is, he articulated a difficult problem openly. In America, we prefer to handle difficult problems by obfuscation.This is particularly true when it comes to judging or evaluating merit.
American Idol was such a huge hit so many years ago -- not because of Kelly Clarkston's vocal prowess or a nostalgia for the choreography of Paula Abdul -- but because Simon Cowell was willing to say to someone directly -- "You aren't good enough; in fact, you are really, really bad." This was something Americans had forgotten how to do and they delighted in Cowell's "English" directness.
Indeed, Cowell helped fashion a new kind of "Englishness" in American popular culture. From the 1950s through the 1980s the standard American image of an Englishman was a pre-war aristocrat: stuffy, overeducated, slightly effeminate, tweedy -- an "I sayer" as they say that John Cleese delighted in mocking. In short, American culture imagined a sort of English guy that really doesn't exist in huge numbers anymore and hasn't for sometime. Cowell helped create a new role. The sharp, straight talker. Len Goodman occupies this role on
DWTS.
Rather ironically, Len's "straight talking" actually masked the real issue at hand: Is Hope getting treated unfairly -- as Max argued -- in relation to Chaz? When do you call an official (or officials) on acting out of bounds?